Funeral Masses and Memorials
Through Baptism, a Catholic begins their faith journey with the belief that death is not the end nor does it break the bonds forged in life. Since the Mass is the central source and summit of our faith, Catholic funerals generally include Mass. The Mass is planned to incorporate the wishes of the deceased and provide opportunity for loved ones to reflect.
Funeral Planning Steps
Planning a funeral can be overwhelming. Holy Cross and your funeral home will assist you in every step along the way. The following can serve as a guide:
Step One:
Please contact your funeral home to set up a date for the service. The funeral home will then contact Holy Cross to coordinate and confirm the date.
Step Two:
Please complete the online Intake Form below. Holy Cross will then contact you for details of the services.
Step Three
Your family will be asked to select readings for the Mass. The link below provides a complete list of the scripture passages for you to read using your own Bible. A booklet with all of the readings will also be provided to you when you come into the church office. Individual tributes or eulogies are not permitted at the funeral Mass. They are reserved for the Vigil or Rosary service (normally, the afternoon or evening before the day of the Funeral Mass) or for a reception following the funeral liturgy. If you have any questions, please don’t hesitate to e-mail or call the office at info@hcclc.org or (575) 523-0167.
Pre-planning a funeral service ensures the wishes of the deceased are known and lessens the stress on the family when making decisions. The Funeral Pre-Planning Guide (see link below) will walk you through the decisions needed to be made for a Catholic funeral service. Please also review the teachings of the church regarding end-of-life issues in the second link reported by (CHA)The Catholic Health Association of the United States.
After the forms are completed, a copy should be filed with Holy Cross, the executor of your estate and the mortuary, if you have pre-planned with them.
If you have any questions when filling out the forms please call the church office at
575-523-0167